Here is what I did (basically.) I ran a free defog action from the old DPMoms site, which I believe is now http://www.texaschicksblogsandpics.com/ I almost always wind up choosing the 2nd layer "a little foggier." Then I flattened and ran the free coffeeshop action which is actually for portraits (that would be the perfect portrait action.) I tweaked and adjusted and flattened. It seemed too dark or saturated, so I tried several textures and layers, and nothing quite worked. I settled on a gradient map on a super-low opacity (6% i think.) Next I tried a clipping mask, but couldn't remember how to keep the transparent background, unfortunately. Since this is a white background, it doesn't show-hehe.
Not perfect, but I am proud of me for giving it a try! Yay!
Here is the link to the Everyday Elements site. There is a posing guide giveaway also. Check it out: